GET YOUR SEXY ON
I am a complete advocate for self maintenance, pampering yourself and dressing for yourself. My mom has always told me early on that a lady should always be "ON" for herself first and once she truly is - no one can touch her. The thing about being ON for yourself is that your idea of sexy or ON is the only idea that matters and once you develop your preferences - what everyone else does and what their opinion of you is really truly doesn't matter. When I was younger I always made sure to maintain the basics, nails, skin, hair.....I would put effort into dressing up if I felt the desire to. One thing I can honestly say is that I have never been one for putting much thought or effort into lingerie. When I became a teenager my mama had a serious conversation with me about how vital it is to wear matching bras and panties. I, of course, had sets because she would buy me sets......but never really cared to invest in them - plus I hardly wear bras!
Lately lingerie has been calling my name though! I'm not sure if its because I am slightly older, or because I am turning more into my mother than I would like to admit....but I have slowly started to put as much effort into my undergarments than I do with everything else on top. I have invested in garter belts, matching bra and panty sets, body suits...etc. And I can honestly say, I have never felt more complete, sexy and ON. Not only do I feel ON just knowing what kind of sexy I have going on under my outfit but I feel a sense of pride and accomplishment that at anytime if me and my man were to risqué - I not only look good on my outer layers but that sexy runs all the way down to my knickers!
Here are some of my favorite lingerie looks right now: